Thursday, March 11, 2010

life....


life is short,in fact too short...too short to be wasted..
everyday,every minute,every second,we are actually exchanging our life for it...
choices are given in our life...we can choose to waste it or use it...
i know very well that time passes by and gone forever...but the laziness in me still pulling me away from catching up the time...i am still wasting my time....GoT To cHaNgE!!!cause i know the price i paid for it...
Live life with no regrets...

Recently i have been asking myself what is the point for me to live??what is the main purpose of my life???Yeah,i got few aims/targets/goals that i want to achieve in my life...may be i can achieve them some day...what i am thinking deeply right now is not the goals or anything other things...but i am searching deeply in my mind that what if i have achieved all the goals and got all the things i want,what is the things or purpose for me to live???
No any answers in my mind right now...
However,the closest one is LOVE.

1 comments:

忆忘錄--The Lost Memory said...

The first requirement of effective living is that we should have some sort of aim. Generally speaking, the difference between a successful person and an unsuccessful one is that the former knows what he wants and bends every effort towards securing that end, while the latter has only a vague idea of what it is he is trying to do with his life.

Such a person may have day dreams in plenty, may wish vaguely to be and do this, that, and the other; but that is a vastly different thing from having a definite objective in living – an all constraining aim towards which all interest and effort are directed.

Ask half a dozen people what their aim in life is. You will be amazed to discover how greatly most of them will be taken by surprise at the question and how they will have considerable difficulty in answering it with any certainty. More important is ask yourself with the same question.

What is your own dominant air? What do you want to do and to be? Unless you can answer this question at once in a few crisp sentences, you have not really started on the path of successful living.

The aim need not b anything very startling like making a fortune, or establishing a nationwide chain of business, or writing a best seller. It may be to widen your general culture by ordered and regular reading. It may be to become as efficient as you possibly can be in your own job, even though that job is a limited one. It may be to engage in some sort of voluntary social service. It may be to lay in your own home the basis of a truly happy family.

Any one of these aims could become an engrossing and satisfying pursuit, greatly enriching your own life and that of the community in which you live.

The human spirit is capable of almost inconceivable triumphs. We shall save ourselves some unnecessary frustration and heart break, however, if we choose an aim which is reasonably within the scope of the powers with which we have been endowed.

Once the aim is fixed, we must be willing to under go the necessary discipline and to attain the necessary knowledge and competency to fulfill it.

Somebody once said, “Genius is 10 percent inspiration and 90 percent perspiration.” Many people fail to achieve their object because, while enamoured of the aim, they are less enamoured of the effort required in its fulfillment. They think how lovely it would be to play like Paderewski, but they are not willing to practice long hours daily as he did. They dream of writing a best seller, or of having their name in lights, but imagine that such things can be achieved simply by thinking about them!