Wednesday, December 17, 2008

男孩的。。。。。。心。。。。。。像玻璃。。。。。。

女孩应该原谅男孩的10个地方...

1。 如果你喜欢他就告诉他,即使他拒绝了,也不会丢面子,因为在他心里,会因为你的真情而非常非常感激你。

2。如果他喜欢你,要明确告诉他你对他的感 ,喜欢就是喜欢,不喜欢就是不喜欢, 万不要怕伤害他而忧郁不决,不要让他等到最后才受到抛弃,因为男孩子的心一旦伤了就很难很难再好起来。

3 。男孩子也有自己的脾气,只是因为爱你而压抑着,不要总是任性,有时他们的决定也很有道理.

4。男孩子莫名的向你发脾气,那时因为爱你 把你当成最亲,最贴心,最有安全感的 ,千万不要冲他发脾气反击,静静的等着 ,等他消气后满怀后悔来抱你



5。 他为你准备的东西,即使再难看,再廉价,也要去珍惜,因为那里面融汇着他整晚的思绪



6 。相信他给你多么多么美好的生活,要给他鼓励,因为鼓励会让他创造奇迹。



7 。不要总是打探他去哪,告诉他注意安全,你会等着他就可以。



8 。不要总说~我爱你~,他会半真半笑着说你烦,但不要不说,因为有时候,他们比女孩子更需要这句



9。他为你掉眼泪了,那么他是真的非常爱你 珍惜他的每一滴泪,不要道歉,不要安慰 ,握着他的手,默默的为他擦去泪滴。



10 。要信任他,他爱你,就什么都不会骗你,即使真的有欺骗,也是为让你们的爱情能够永远不离不弃。

Sunday, December 14, 2008

are u a lazy person???

Since small i was telling others that i am a lazy person,till now i am still telling others the same thing.

I was born in Snake year(one of the twelve animals that symbolizing the Twelve Branches used to designate years,according to lunar calendar).


Snake,at first based on my point of thinking, is a lazy creature, and so do i since i was born in snake year.

However when i searched by typing personality of snake in google,i saw something that i never thought before.....I felt quite funny after looking them.


One of the results of my searching by google said that ''Snakes are wise and are not people who can be easily ignored. They possess a strong, charismatic presence and a charm which has been described by some astrologers as "bewitching" or "beguiling." With a penetrating eye and attention to the desires of their conquests, they're known as experts in the art of seduction.

In ancient Taoism, the Snake is the symbol of wisdom. Therefore people born during the Year of the Snake are said to be endowed with deep philosophical understanding.

They are born thinkers who excel in finding solutions to complex problems. In matters of business they can be shrewd, biding their time in making a deal only to strike like lightning and make a killing when they judge the moment is right.

Thus in life, the majority of Snakes are financially successful and generally lucky with money; their fortunes very much depend on their careful and considered judgment in financial affairs and on their intuitive feelings in business negotiations.

These are clever, intelligent people who take time to formulate their ideas and opinions.

Even when they are at their laziest, their minds are working overtime, laying their schemes and hatching their plots for the future.

Snakes are wise, philosophical, calm, and understanding. They are receptive and physically alluring, often fickle.

Success and fame come easily to Snakes. They can be treacherous creatures who delight in intrigue and who wouldn't think twice about double-crossing someone in order to save their own skins.

Their calculating natures will never forgive or forget a slight. They can be lazy and self-indulgent.

Their innate elegance can at times be ostentatious. Subtle, secretive, elusive and enigmatic, there is an element of the mysterious that surrounds the Snake personality. Perhaps this is due to their intuitive faculties, or perhaps it is a consequence of their strong inner spirituality which can manifest itself in an interest in religion, mysticism or the occult. A Snake is extremely determined and strives for what he desires regardless of circumstances; he can be counted on to carry a project through to the end.

Unlike the Dragon who accomplishes set goals through intense outward actions and activities, the Snake accomplishes his goals through careful plans and calculations. Their decisions are quick and firm, but they are formed by first impressions, on sympathies and feelings logically assembled in their minds -- rather than by simple facts alone.

Snakes will fight and plod for anything they believe in and allow nothing to stand in their way. At ease in all circumstances and possessing uncommon self-discipline and immense mental capacity, the Snake achieves great heights and honors in his or her career, enjoying the well deserved respect of an admiring entourage.

Snakes are a bit tight when it comes to lending money, though their sympathy for others often leads them to offer help. The help will be in kind rather than in cash, however; the Snake is freer with himself than he is with his money! The fatal flaw in the Snake's character is, in fact, a tendency to exaggerate -- in helping friends as with everything else. If a Snake does somebody a favor, he becomes possessive toward them in an odd way, so that finally he is more a hindrance than a help.

The snake's serpentine nature leads him to coil and cling to the point where he can suffocate the object of his attention.

Think twice then, before you accept an offer of help from a Snake; you could regret it! Snakes can be ruthless when challenged. Since the Snake is the master of the human psyche, this makes him a formidable enemy.

In money matters, the Snake has good luck -- he simply doesn't have to worry about it. He will always be able to get money when he needs it, and he feels this so strongly that it has never bothered him at all. Once he has got it, though, he's a little stingy; that's why he never lends.

In old age he can become quite miserly.


Snakes are notoriously good looking and like to project the best image of themselves that they can. Both men and women of the sign have elegant and stylish taste in clothes; the men are sexy and always have a bit of the dandy about them, and the ladies are seductive and rave over smart accessories. Whether in looks or in circumstances, Snakes simply have a magical knack of making the very best out of the most mediocre.

In Japan, those wishing to pay a woman a compliment and acknowledge her beauty are accustomed to say: "My dear, you are a real snake!" -- a pleasantry most likely to be misinterpreted in the West.

As with real snakes, which hibernate in the cold season and come out when it's warm, Snake people shine in the hot months. And the Snake born at midday in the heat of a tropical summer will be happier than one born in the middle of an icy night in winter. The destiny of those born under this sign is so sensitive to the inclemencies of climate that the almanac warns Snakes born on a stormy day that they will face danger throughout their lives.


The Snake personality is described as careful, and when it comes to the choice of a partner these people are infinitely selective. For them, only the best will do. Elegance will be one of the first attractions, but so too is good breeding and delicate manners.

When they find the partner of their dreams they will brook no opposition, allow nothing to stand in their way, until they win the heart of the object of their desire.

Having won their prize, they then become possessive and jealous, fearful that it should slip out of their hands. Deeply passionate, these are demanding lovers, highly sensual creatures, sexy in the extreme. Lady Snakes are ultra-feminine -- sultry, exotic creatures, femmes fatales in every sense. Success and power will turn her on and she will probably make a beeline for the richest and most influential person she can find.

Those born under the sign of the Snake often tend to be afflicted with a wandering eye, especially the Snake males who delight in women. Unfortunately, both sexes tend to complicate their lives with extramarital affairs. If they can struggle against this trait and succeed in channelling their affections inwards towards their own families, they will gain enormous serenity and inner harmony in their lives. If the Snake settles down, he or she can become a marvelous parent, creating a calm and stable atmosphere for their offspring. The Snake will often have a large family -- for him, it's just one more way of making sure that his wife has no time to play around like he does.



Lovers and spouses

THE SNAKE LOVER
Snakes are beautiful people who exhibit quite a sexual appeal. They are sleek and seductive and if they want you, will out a spell on you that won’t let you stop thinking about them. However, Snakes are quite prejudiced when choosing a partner and don’t just choose based on physical qualities. The Snake needs a partner who can appreciate his quirky sense of humor and his wacky way of handling situations, so generally, although quite beautiful and tempting to approach, the Snake does all the pursuing.

MARRIAGE
Because the Snake is so choosy, he can become jealous and obsessive about his partner. They can be a bit stand-offish with their mates, choosing to push away emotions rather than confront their feelings and insecurities. Once betrayed, you can bank on not ever being trusted by the Snake again as much as you can bet he will get even.

THE SNAKE LOVE PARTNER
Not everyone can live and be happy with a Snake. It takes a patient soul, someone ready for the long haul, who can calm his nerves and deal with his obsessions with skill. Chinese horoscopes are very specific about which partnerships have the potential to be successful in love and in business. Yet, though destiny can point us in the right direction, we must still make all efforts to maintain loving relationships. Following is a brief description of how a Snake will affect a relationship with other Animal Signs.



The Rabbit, Dragon and Monkey are on good terms with Snakes, but the Horse and the Dog annoy them. A firm alliance can be achieved with the Rooster. The insecure Snake will be happy with the supportive Ox, who is content to be overrun by this family on condition that the Ox is always accepted as boss -- a role that the Snake willingly concedes in the home. The Boar should beware of the Snake who will impose upon him, ensnare and immobilize him, while the Snake wallows in his own faults, knowing that he can get away with it. June is the month of the Snake. The time of the Snake is from 9:00 a.m. to 10:59 a.m.; their direction of orientation is south-southeast. The Snake's color is red.''

Years of the Snake


Snake Years are sixth in the cycle, following the Dragon Years, and recur every twelfth year. The Chinese New Year does not fall on a specific date, so it is essential to check the calendar to find the exact date on which each Snake Year actually begins.
1905*1917*1929*1941*1953*1965*1977*1989*2001


SNAKES MAKE EXCELLENT:
Scientists
Potters
Analysts
Jewelers
Spiritual Leaders
Sociologists
Dieticians
Astrologers
Magicians
Investigators
Painters


Snakes Dislike: Being interrupted, being mislead personally or professionally, failure


LEONINE SNAKE
Confident and proud, the Leonine Snake hates to come in second place. They fuel on kudos from others, but will become a bit obnoxious if it goes to their heads.



i didn't even knew about this although i am snake. I am so proud for being a snake after read all the description.hehe.

happy chinese 牛 year

Friday, December 12, 2008

am i look lik girls.....???!!!


Suddenly remembered the slide that i made for my friendster last time.....
then that gave a strong feeling to check who looks like me(my ex did this for her friendster last time)

funny thing is,about 85% of the celebrities that look like me are female,not joking
for me i think it is ok,i am just look like female,this doesn't mean i am a female.
however, i think for guys,mostly,they can't accept if they look like female although sometime they are......hehe....
But guys really should show some strength and masculities from their appearances. so it is a sad case for me as i am lacking of strength and masculities.....sobs....
but i am very confident that i still can get a wife....although i am not that 'man'...

Sunday, December 7, 2008

empty hand

Don't know why,suddenly i have a strong feeling of holding someone's hand,
although even i also don't know who is that 'someone'.

i just feel that i don't like my hand to be empty,without holding anyone's hand....



I really missed my past when i was holding my ex..hand,
it made me felt very happy and satisfied with my life during those sweet moments,
although it was just a simple action .

i enjoyed the temperature difference of our hands, her hand did warmed my heart a lot,
in those moments i was always thought that nothing could be better than that,
although sometime the sweat that secreted from my hand did affected a bit of the romantic feeling....sobs....hehe.....it sounds funny but my sweat was really quite annoying during those sweet moments.



hope one day the person i am holding by hand will be the person i love and she also loves me.

and hope i don't need to wait too long for that day...

Someone is thinking of you , is just you don't know

Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

He or she maybe don't really wants to think about you,but by reflex he or she will thinks of you involuntary.



Sometime when we want to forget something or someone, usually the person or the thing that we want to forget will sure remains strongly in our memory,and just can't be forgot.





Therefore when we wana forget something or someone, we should just treat them in a "let it be" way.



Don't try to hate the person,because the person will become more unforgettable instead of go far away from your memory.



Remember when you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look: you most likely turned your back on the world.



So try and turn around to see the world,maybe you will find the difference.



Enjoy your life with love.....

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Someone in moscow (sad and lonely city),missing of someone...


I can see the first leaf falling.
It's all yellow & nice.
It's so very cold outside.
Like the way I'm feeling inside.
Outside it's now raining.
And tears are falling from my eyes.
Why did it have to happen ? Why did it all have to end ?
I have Your arms around me like fire.But when I open my eyes.
You're gone !

I'm a big big boy !
In a big big world !
It's not a big big thing if You leave me.,
But I do do feel.
That I too too will miss You much!
Miss You much !
It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday



How do I say goodbye to what we had?
The good times that made us laugh
Outweigh the bad.
I thought we'd get to see forever
But forever's gone away
It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday.
I don't know where this road
Is going to lead
All I know is where we've been
And what we've been through.
If we get to see tomorrow
I hope it's worth all the wait
It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday.
And I'll take with me the memories
To be my sunshine after the rain
It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday.
And I'll take with me the memories
To be my sunshine after the rain
It's so hard to say goodbye to yesterday